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To say that all of your relationships change after having kids is an understatement. They’re not necessarily better or worse, just...different. Nevertheless, navigating relationships post-baby can be tricky.
 

Luckily, seasoned NPN parents have plenty of advice for adjusting to the new normal with friends (new and old), in-laws, your parents, co-workers and, most of all, your partner. Have a question about a particularly thorny situation you’re dealing with? The discussion forum is here for you 24/7.

4 ways I focus on my marriage after becoming a parent
Seven years of marriage has taught me a lot. How communicating with my wife (and really listening) when I would prefer to shut down really helps us solve problems. How saying “I’m sorry” should only b...
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Is your relationship ready for baby? 4 tips to prepare your partnership
Becoming a parent is a joyful, exciting time. It is also a stressful, disorienting and exhausting time. There is cultural messaging that children are a joy and we should be happy throughout their...
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I met my mommy match on a blind date
Motherhood is a mix of emotions: excitement, exhaustion and, of course, endless amounts of love. But here’s the thing: Motherhood can also bring up another feeling that not a lot of people talk about....
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Discussions

Husband midlife crisis/malaise

I've been married for almost 19 years with 2 boys 10 and 15 with special needs.  We started marriage counseling in September where my husband said he was unhappy and contemplating leaving the marriage. He's been seeing his own therapist for a year who led him to that point.  In the last 5 years, he'...

My parents drive me insane but I feel guilty setting boundaries because they’re old and going to die soon

Curious how others have managed what must be a pretty common problem.   For context, they’re not American, and the concept of boundaries is like an affront to them. They also complain about each other constantly, fight in front of us, and try to draw everyone around them into their fights. Th...

Do you feel really connected to your kids and spouse? How do you do it?

Parent of two tweens and now that they’re gaining much more independence I can’t help but wonder if I’m doing enough to connect with them and create strong bonds as a family. We spent a lot of time at home NOT doing stuff together. One kid is drawing, the other one is playing Fortnite with cousins, ...

How annoyed should I be with a couple of friends for forgetting my birthday?

It just sort of pisses me off.  We generally just send a "happy birthday" text to each other, but my track record is definitely better than theirs...   Do I remind them that it was my birthday?  Do I just ignore it?  What would you do? ...

Ice breaker type of activity for upcoming meeting

Looking for an ice breaker/team building exercise to kick off an upcoming meeting for a semi-crabby/tired  healthcare team…nothing too elaborate  but something that would cater to to those in person and those over zoom, something that doesn’t cost money (agin-it’s healthcare) and something that is l...


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