Category: Developmental Differences

Parents, Heal Thyself

I have seen remarkable progress in increasing overall functioning, in children with developmental differences ( anxiety, ADHD, sensory integration disorder, autism spectrum disorder, oppositional defiant disorder, etc.) by targeting and enhancing emotional regulation skills in their parents.  In other words, by assisting parents in learning how to decrease their reactivity to their children's ineffective behaviors, these behaviors are no longer reinforced and instead parents emphasize atte...

Posted on February 06, 2013 at 6:00 AM by Debra Kissen

Making Choices for Twins with Developmental Differences

When I first found out in 2002 that I would be having twins, I felt overjoyed and grateful like I had never felt before.  I dreamed of how it would be having them in matching twin outfits, taking perfect walks in the park, traveling to visit relatives and everything working in tandem just as planned.  I did not know that they would nap at different times, feed at different times and do almost everything at different times.   The one thing they both seemed to do together all day at the same...

Posted on February 01, 2013 at 6:00 AM by Lesa Bricker-Reich

Fresh from the Forum: Developmental Differences Support

Are you the parent of a child with a developmental difference or delay? Or maybe your child is still very young, yet you're scratching your head wondering if his/her behavior is "normal" and trying to seek out advice?

NPN's discussion forums are chock-full of posts on topics ranging from speech delays to sensory processing disorder. Particularly when it comes to diagnosing, treating, and nurturing kids with developmental differrences - such as speech/motor delays, autism, SPD, ADH...

Posted on January 17, 2013 at 6:00 AM by Melanie Schlachter

Nurturing a Child on the Autism Spectrum - Our Family's Story

So, on a cold day back in February of 2012, my wife urged me to come along with her to this big Developmental Differences Resource Fair she had read about  somewhere in the city. We live in Berwyn, so that pretty much meant that I would have to actually have to change from my comfy clothes on my day off and bundle up in order to brave the harsh Chicago environments (including traffic) to drive out to this fair. Uggghhh….I thought. As, we drove out there we talked about getting an opportuni...

Posted on January 10, 2013 at 6:00 AM by Bryan Martinez

NPN's 2nd Annual Developmental Differences Fair is Feb. 10!

NPN proudly presents our 2nd Annual Developmental Differences Resource Fair! This event was created to help parents of children (from birth through 8th grade) with a range of developmental differences - developmental delays (i.e., speech, motor skills), sensory processing disorder, autism, ADD/ADHD, PDD-NOS, mixed receptive-expressive language disorder, Down Syndrome, physical disabilities, and more.

Where: Gordon Tech High School, 3633 N. California Ave., Chicago

When: Sunday, Feb...

Posted on January 03, 2013 at 6:00 AM by Melanie Schlachter

The School Called Again - Facing Behavioral Exclusion

Another hurdle for parents of children diagnosed or at-risk for a special need in school is that our children miss far more school days than children without a disability.

This quote is from a Chicago Tribune article, A Challenge Unmet, by Jackson and Marx (Nov. 13, 2012). It appeared as part of a Tribune series on truancy in the Chicago Public Schools. The article cites: "informal exclusion from school is a nationwide problem for children with disabilities.” 

I can report that I wa...

Posted on December 17, 2012 at 7:00 AM

Helping your late talker to communicate

Many parents ask me why their child is a late talker. Speech-language delays are common because oral communication is a complex process. There are many neurological processes that must occur to say just one word! A child has to get his parent's attention, know the word, find the right word in her brain, send the word from his brain to his mouth and coordinate movements of her mouth to form the word.  Sometimes, the reasons for these difficulties are obvious. Other times, it is unclear why...

Posted on November 14, 2012 at 6:00 AM by Anna Rooney

Caring for your Child with ADHD

When a child is impulsive, hyperactive, and seems out of control, how do you remain calm and offer your best caregiving?  This is the challenge that parents face on a regular basis when they have a child diagnosed with ADHD.  Children who are agitated, dysregulated, or escalated are challenging for even the “best” parents. Often traditional reward/punishment approaches are not a good fit for these children and place more challenges on the parent-child relationship.  Children with ADHD are ...

Posted on October 01, 2012 at 6:00 AM by Allison Levine

Parenting Your Anxious Child

No one says it is easy to be a parent and it is all the more challenging to raise an anxious child.  I write these words from two vantage points.  I am a clinical psychologist who specializes in the treatment of children with anxiety disorders and I am the parent of a highly anxious little girl.  

As with all individuals who struggle with anxiety, my daughter Alexandra is uncomfortable with the unknown.  Therefore, introducing her to any new activity is always a challenge.  For example...

Posted on August 02, 2012 at 7:19 AM by Debra Kissen

When a Child is Diagnosed with a Mild Disability: 5 Steps for Parent

The first time I ever spoke to parents about parenting a child diagnosed with a mild disability, I was in my internship year working towards my master’s degree in family counseling.

I created an educational support group for parents and had about eight women and one man signed-up to attend.  Before our first group session, I watched as each parent came into the large conference room. It was obvious from the minute the father stepped into the room that he was very uncomfortable. I could...

Posted on May 23, 2012 at 6:10 AM by Melanie Arons